Difficult People Videos

The Scary Specialist – Type 1
Someone can be brilliant at their job and still drive people out.
Meet the Scary Specialist: the expert whose blunt criticism and high standards often undermines teams.
December 18, 2025/by NickMeet the Scary Specialist: the expert whose blunt criticism and high standards often undermines teams.

The Dark Strategist – Type 2
Some of the most difficult people at work aren’t disruptive or emotional, but when strategy starts to matter more than people, trust and delivery suffer!
January 28, 2026/by Nick
The Martyr – Type 3
Some of the most difficult people at work are highly principled, uncompromising, and quietly self-sacrificing. But under pressure, judgement, withdrawal, and unilateral action can stall progress and block decision-making.
March 5, 2026/by Nick
The Driving Force – Type 4
They can move mountains - or mow you down! The Driving Force can be one of the most valuable people in your organisation - if you know how to channel their energy.
March 5, 2026/by Nick
The Revolutionary – Type 5
Working with a Revolutionary can feel like holding a tiger by the tail: but with the right leadership they can be transformational.
September 2, 2025/by Nick
The Empire Builder – Type 6
Empire Builders look like natural leaders, inspiring and full of confidence. But when it’s all bravado, they’ll crush dissent and shoot the messenger rather than face a complex issue. Here’s what to do about it.
September 8, 2025/by Nick
The Worrier – Type 7
The workplace micromanager who can’t stop checking everything, and still ends up causing mistakes!
March 5, 2026/by Nick
The Rock – Type 8
Why do some colleagues feel impossible to shift!?
This video explains the Rock type and how to work with them more productively.
January 28, 2026/by NickThis video explains the Rock type and how to work with them more productively.

The People Pleaser – Type 9
The most dangerous word at work isn’t “No”. It’s “Yes.”
Here’s the final type in my 9 Types of Difficult People series: The People Pleaser.
February 25, 2026/by NickHere’s the final type in my 9 Types of Difficult People series: The People Pleaser.

The 9 Types – And What Comes Next
Most of us will spend around 80,000 hours of our lives at work.
Those hours can be shaped by friction and misunderstanding — or by clarity, courage and collaboration.
March 5, 2026/by NickThose hours can be shaped by friction and misunderstanding — or by clarity, courage and collaboration.
