Behavioural Choice and Change (2/2)
Nine strategies for adopting new behaviours at work. For when you need a different way of doing things.
I wrote in a previous post about the principle in my kind of coaching that:
the person with the most flexibility is the one most likely to succeed.
That is, if leaders can adapt their approach, change their behaviours, in a way that remains authentic, then they’ll be more likely to overcome obstacles and to influence people positively. It’s also a very important consideration for those times when the way you’re currently going about things just isn’t working anymore.
If my previous post focussed on what needs to go on, inside your head, while you’re figuring out how to find and adopt new behaviours, then this post offers a simple menu you can pick from, anytime you want to try doing things differently.
First, think of something you’re trying to get done.
Maybe something which has a higher-than-usual level of challenge? Perhaps a task that involves people you find it hard to relate to? Or something which is a little outside your comfort zone? Or maybe something where you know that your usual way of doing it isn’t going to work now?
Then, go through these options – and see my notes at the end on how to choose the best one for you.
1. Think of a person who has one or two personal qualities that you either admire or reckon might be useful. How would that person behave in this situation?
2. Take a moment to reflect on what you are like at your absolute best. How would that version of you set about doing things?
3. If you remember your Monty Python and the Spanish Inquisition sketch, here’s an easy one for you – how would nobody expect you to behave?
4. When they’re faced with a task like yours, how do most people set about doing it?
5. Temporarily set-aside something that might be limiting your thinking. For example, how would you behave if time/money/quality [delete as applicable] wasn’t an issue?
6. How would you behave now if you already knew how things would work out?
7. How would you set about doing this task if you knew you couldn’t fail?
8. What’s the smallest, easiest, quickest way of doing it and how would you behave in that case?
9. If you were being outlandishly, outrageously ambitious in your behaviour, how would that change the way you do things?
The idea with this approach is to shift from only having one way of doing things, which sooner or later gets you stuck, to having a whole range of different ways of behaving. It doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible for just about everyone. And don’t be constrained by my list – if there’s a new way of behaving that you’ve already got in mind or which isn’t covered by that list, test it out for yourself.
When you’re choosing which (new) way to behave, people often like to think about these issues:
- Which new way of doing things feels most authentic, like the ‘real’ me?
- Which way of behaving is going to be most effective given the task at hand, the people involved and the wider circumstances?
- Which is the most ethical way for me to behave now, all things considered?
Hope that helps? And remember, change is the only constant!